Men may have sometimes overlooked to provide words of affirmation for their lovely wife.
I asked for a show of hands recently when I asked, “How many spouses have received too much praise in the last month?” Laughter erupted across the room. No, I haven’t consumed an excessive amount of it.
If Lisa is any indicator, women often experience life as if it were rushing at them at the speed of a fighter jet and with the confusion of a riot. In addition, the voices inform them in subtle and not-so-subtle ways that the work they’re doing isn’t up to par. Wives often experience the nagging sense that they fall short of expectations.
Let us drown out those voices with affirming clapping – words of beauty, truth, and love that every woman wants to hear but also often need to hear.
Here are some good vibes words of affirmations for your wife
1) You provide a lot, and I appreciate it.
Tired of relying on a cliché “thank you” to express your gratitude? For your wife, you can do better than that. Why not let her know that she has done a lot, and you fully acknowledge it and feel thankful for it.
2) You are alluring.
Women who are told they are attractive by their husbands become more gorgeous. Men who tell their spouses they’re attractive believe it with more confidence with each passing phrase. Expressed love equals beauty; beauty equals romance. It’s a win-win situation. Additionally, it does not harm you to bolster your words with a meaningful text.
3) You inspire me to strive to be a better guy.
When she leaves the table, get up, unlock the vehicle door, cross the walkway on the street side, assist her with her jacket, dash to the car for her umbrella… You see the point.
4) We appreciate your loyalty to our family.
Let her know that her devotion as a mother, wife, lover, friend and all the roles she played is deeply appreciated.
5) You are a devout Christian lady.
If she is a hardcore Christian, this is definitely an excellent compliment.
6) I’ve gained a great deal of knowledge from you.
A woman feels empowered when you acknowledge her brains.
7) I’ve seen your tremendous growth.
Let her know that she has become a better person.
8) It’s a pleasure to spend time with you.
Each week has exactly 168 hours — the number never changes. The time we devote to our relationships may seem to be a vote on how much we regard the people we claim to love. Romance, like any good endeavor, requires an investment of time and effort. (Ensure that you are aware of the divergent notions of romance held by you and your wife.)
9) You’re a pleasure to be around.
Read Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Lasting Love and determine what you can do to become fluent in your wife’s love language. Then, on a daily basis, apply what you’ve learned.
10) You are a gift.
Express your gratitude to her aloud. Gratitude is necessary for authentic connection. This affirmation is particularly effective when spoken in the morning. When you begin by declaring her a blessing, thankfulness becomes the prism through which you see your relationship, thus avoiding conflict.
11) You are stunning.
It is critical to reinforce her apparent physical attractiveness. Never cease praising your wife’s physical attractiveness. Some women with low self-esteem try to undermine their husband’s affirmations, but you should keep affirming yourself regardless of what they say. Inner beauty is comprised of appealing personality traits. “I like your genuine concern for the individuals with whom you engage; you are stunning.”
12) You are cherished.
True, we misuse the term “love” for just about everything. “I adore bacon, power tools, and Netflix.” However, expressing your love inside a relationship is unique. You may even recall the first time you expressed your love for her. Even if you believe she should already know, remind her daily that she is loved.
13) Your presence is desired.
John and Stasi Eldredge discuss how every woman has a deep need to be attractive in their book, Captivating. Pursue your wife in a manner that shows she is wanted, and your connection will be stronger than ever.
14) You’d make a wonderful wife.
Your marital connection is unlike any other relationship you will ever have. Assure her that her relationship will succeed. Inform her that she is doing an excellent job of loving you.
15) You pull the best out of me.
Check the scales, consider what you wear around wifey, quit smoking, begin a regular exercise, and avoid being a slob. When she sees you, does she give you another glance – or does she avert her gaze? Does the way you portray yourself to communicate to your wife that you want her attraction, or do you take it for granted?
16) You are an incredible person.
Kindness has the potential to be the “X Factor” in romance. Being nice is underappreciated, underrated, and most definitely underused. Desire romance? Be Mr. Generosity. Develop a second nature of thinking and deliberation. Gentlemen really do finish first, and she will fall in love with you all over again.
17) You are a swift-moving river.
Let her know that she move beautifully and smoothly.
18) To me, you are as lovely as the day we were married.
The most common fear that women have is getting old, but let her know that in your eyes, she is forever 21.
19) My preferred location is with you.
Plan events, dates, nights at home, vacations, and even stolen moments with the same innovative thinking that drove you to ask her out in the first place. The term “self-fulfilling prophecy” refers to a psychological notion. Simply put: believe she is worth the work, and she will be; relax your efforts, and she will as well; and approach your relationship with some creative purpose, as if she is still capable of knocking your socks off – which she will.
20) Without you, I would not be half the guy I am.
“She is now mindful that she is critical to me.” is an ineffectual reaction. If you haven’t done anything in the last four hours to show how unique she is, you’ve already waited too long. This is not a high-priced item; it is a high-value item. Consider a phone call to express your affection, a simple note tucked into her handbag, a lunch date, or a bouquet of flowers delivered to her workplace. Do you continue to open your vehicle doors? Serve her hot tea, wash her vehicle, surprise her with a hug, a foot massage, or supper candles? You’re getting the picture.
21) You make love seem enjoyable.
Would she still be eager to say yes if you asked her out today? You must have been very skilled at one point, or she would not have married you! Therefore, why stop now? At the very least, one date each month. Utilize your creativity, be inventive, and personalize it.
22) You are the fulcrum of my existence.
The most romantic thing to let a girl know that you are incomplete without her. The idea that she is the only one that decides your fate and existence.
23) God said, “It is bad for a man to be alone.” It’s wonderful to be with you!
This is an adorable affirmation to let her know that you are not alone because of her.
24) While I’m away this week, keep in mind that home is where my heart is.
Some women are insecure when their husband is out for business. Let her know that she has nothing to worry about because your heart belongs to her.
25) I love you.
The most often repeated myth among unromantic guys is as follows: I shouldn’t have to say it; she should know.
Final Thoughts
Life is hectic, and our spouse often does not get the care or love he or she needs. However, did you know that giving real compliments to your partner may make them feel more loved and confident?!